Coming out of the bathrooms ran into a female colleague in tears…WHY? HER GUY LEFT HER. After friggin 11 YEARS, he decides this is just not working anymore and he’s not getting what he wants from the relationship and he feels that it is best to move on…..AFTER ELEVEN EFFING YEARS???!!!
COME ON!! Surely you know within 12 months (i.e. a year) whether this person is for you or not. Whether you can actually stomach the idea of looking at the same face day in day out for the rest of your life. Waking up next to them when they don’t have any make-up on and the hair looks like a warthog. Nevermind the BO. Coz’ that IS what it’s about, isn’t it. Not just love schmarve, but how compatible you are and whether you can picture yourself with ONE PERSON for the rest of your time on this earth??!!
Do you really wanna tell me it took this schmuck 11 years to decide she wasn’t good enough for him anymore? COME ON!!
Not that I also blame her. She should’ve seen the signs a long time ago. But we blind ourselves to whatever it is that makes us feel better about this going-nowhere-slowly relationships. We pacify and we hope and we dream and pray. And the excuses we make for these sorry asses calling themselves men….then he eventually kicks YOU in the ASS…..
If he doesn’t put a ring on your finger by year 2 (it doesn’t need to be a bloody rock, so don’t tell me about finances, nor careers and studies and all that shit; if you want each other, you’ll make a plan)….then you better get out of there and start the
shit search all over again.
Am I cynical? VERY.
Poor gal, I really feel for her…..